, and while I joked about having a sibling, I don't think I was prepared for this and seem to be having problems adjusting to the reality. My husband points out that we are both adults, so it is more like having a new friend. Is there a support group for found siblings? Is there a book I can read? I can't find anything about the emotional ramifications for biological siblings that are found.
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--- STILL AN ONLY CHILD IN MY HEAD DEAR STILL: I did a search and found no books or support groups for this situation, though heaven knows there is a need. Between genealogists, the Internet and greater access to adoption documents, "found siblings" are becoming quite a common phenomenon. I not only have friends who've "discovered" half-sibs as adults, but I, myself (an only child) was 45 when a half-sister was born. In my case, the child lived in another country and there was only one meeting. In your case, your husband is correct: Because you like this woman, think of her as a friend. Considering your childhood, for all intents and purposes you are an only child. Perhaps, in time, when you are both older, the father you share may foster a different feeling, and I think the gradualism will make it a smooth transition. If you find it troublesome, you might consider a few sessions with a mental health professional.
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